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One of the responsibilities of a parent is to guide their children on a spiritual journey that introduces them to their Creator. Sound intimidating? It is! ALL parents face challenges and need sources of inspiration, encouragement, and plain old help. So here is a way for you to connect with and build on what your children are learning in kidSPACE. Use it to expand on your ideas, skills and influence as a parent....kidSPACE konnections!

Thursday, June 28, 2012

kidSPACE in July

This is what kids will be learning about in kidSPACE during the month of July:

Preschool:

July is a continuation of the Creation theme that was started in June. God saw all that He had made and it was "good". Preschoolers will learn that God only makes good things, and that includes them too! What an important concept to grasp as they get older.

Verse: God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. Genesis 1:31

Elementary:

Last month we focused on what it means to love and trust God with all our life, not only for the first time, but every day. This month, we want to take a look at something that will begin to happen in our lives as a result of our love and trust in God. When you love and trust God, you will love others.
This love isn’t a command. It’s a fact. It’s impossible to love and trust God, and not love the people whom God loves. 1 John 4:20 says this: “Anyone who says he loves God but in fact hates his brother or sister is a liar. He doesn’t love his brother or sister, whom he has seen. So he can’t love God, whom he has not seen.” (NIrV)
Throughout His ministry, Jesus taught His followers what it meant to love others. He taught how to love our neighbors, how to love our enemies, and how to love those who were overlooked and marginalized. He demonstrated the kind of love that He taught in the way that He lived. And He gave us the ultimate example of love when He died for us.
So, how do you follow Jesus’ example? How do you love a God you can’t see and touch? You love the ones HE loves. And when you love them, you will begin to understand God more, and you will learn to love and trust Him more as well.

Our monthly Memory Verse brings it even closer to home by encouraging us to Love your neighbor as yourself,” Matthew 22:39, NIV.

When you put your trust in God, and you live your life in response to Him by loving Him and loving others, you will live a much better story. Your life will be EPIC because it’s going to be part of something bigger than just you!

By Cara Martens. ©2012 Orange. All rights reserved. www.WhatIsOrange.org * All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Friday, June 22, 2012

Movie Review: Brave



Brave

To be a Disney princess is to have mommy issues.

Snow White's stepmother wanted to kill her. Cinderella's wanted to lock her up. In Tangled, Rapunzel's wanted to comb the ever-loving life out of her hair.

And Princess Merida—a headstrong young lass with a spirit as fiery as her own unruly hair? Her mother wants her to grow up to be … a bride.

Practically every day, Elinor trains Merida in the finer points of ladyship: how to stand, how to eat, how to talk, how to walk. She teaches her lute-playing and schools her in the kingdom's history and geography. "A princess strives for, well, perfection," Elinor tells her. And only perfection is good enough. The lessons are relentless, and with each new rule, familiar scold and look of disappointment Elinor piles on, Merida feels as if her life's not her own. That she's imprisoned in a world of her mom's making.

And now the final lock is in place: Elinor's marrying Merida off. And not to the kilted boy next door, either, but to the son of one of the kingdom's three fractious lords. She's to be the grand prize in an archery contest, and whatever union results won't be of love, but of duty—duty to the clans and the kingdom.

Merida's having none of it.

In a breathtaking moment of rebellion, she competes for her own hand and wins it, enraging the lords and infuriating the queen. But Merida's not done. Back in the castle, she slices through a tapestry depicting her family—severing Elinor from Merida's side.

"You're a beast!" Merida shouts at her. "I'd rather die than be like you!"

The argument grows uglier, and Merida flees from the castle with her face as red as her lashes, tears streaming down her cheeks … as she finds herself in the cottage of an old, mysterious witch with a passion for woodcarving. When the witch tries to sell Merida a bit of her handiwork, the princess suggests a different deal: I'll buy all your woodstuffs if you sell me a spell.

"Change my mom," Merida says. "That will change my fate."

Positive Elements

We've come to expect a lot from Disney's brilliant animated adjunct, Pixar—beautiful art, great comedy and, most of all, fantastic storytelling. Pixar's stories are rooted in relationships, and the studio manages to examine even the most fractious with honesty, sensitivity and grace.

Merida and Elinor's difficult, complex relationship lies at the very soul of Brave. But while Merida may think her mother's a beast, and Elinor might consider Merida a brat, there are no villains here: only two strong, caring and (might as well say it) brave women who, in spite of their differences, love each other very much.

Throughout the course of the movie, Elinor does change: Given a new perspective, she's able to see Merida not as merely a flawed project but as a growing, confident young woman—more capable and mature than she had imagined. Moreover, she moves the kingdom away from the formulaic betrothal process it's historically embraced. Instead of claiming the princess like a blue ribbon at a fair, a potential suitor must now (as a lord tells us) win her heart before he wins her hand.

But it's Merida who changes more here. She discovers that her mother, far from being a beast, has loved and cared for her as much as anyone. She realizes that all those lessons were important—that she has responsibilities and duties that she can't shirk or run away from. In Brave, Merida grows up before our eyes—not physically, but emotionally.

Elinor and Merida wind up risking their lives for each other, and their contentious-but-beautiful bond mimics, in its own surreal way, many a mother-daughter relationship. We see here a mom's need to prepare her kids for the real world, a daughter's desire for freedom and the ability to make her own decisions. Those teen years can be difficult in many households. Brave doesn't tell us otherwise. But it asks us to remember that when you strip away all the differences and all the hurt, the bond between mother and daughter is a thing of transcendent beauty.

Spiritual Content

As mentioned, Brave is inflected with magic. It's not the flyweight wand-waving of Cinderella or the more naturalistic conjurations of Harry Potter. Rather, it's something more in step with the story's ancient Scottish setting: Here, magic is mysterious. Enigmatic. Dark.

The witch works her magic through a giant cauldron and is assisted by a not-so-cute crow. Several times, Merida follows a trail of will-o'-the-wisps—strange, floating lights that her mother tells her will "lead you to your fate." The first time she follows them, they lead to Mordu, a huge "demon bear" that bites off her father's leg. The next time she sees them, she's lying in a Stonehenge-like circle—a magic ring her horse refuses to enter—and the wisps' trail leads to the witch's door. A third time they take her to Mordu's lair, where she discovers the bear's dark, magical past and nearly gets herself killed.

The film seems to reflect, perhaps, a pre-Christian Scotland, when druidic influence was still strong. And while the movie's narrative makes it clear that Merida's dealings with the witch are ill-advised, they also help, indirectly, get her out of her betrothal.

We also hear a great deal of talk about "fate" and "destiny," usually pushed into the realm of social expectations more than anything spiritual. A woodcarving mimics Michelangelo's painting of God and Adam from the Sistine Chapel, only the figures are bears.

Sexual Content

Suddenly finding herself naked in a field—under a tapestry—Elinor causes a bit of a stir among the nobles. She and her husband, King Fergus, smooch, which makes Merida pretty uncomfortable.

Though dead-set against being betrothed, Merida does seem to perk up when she thinks a massive, muscled Scotsman might be one of her suitors. He's not. Later we see him wooing one of the castle's servants.

A servant woman sports a robust amount of cleavage. And one of Merida's precocious brothers dives his hand into said cleavage to retrieve a sweet roll. It's suggested that Fergus pinches Elinor's rear. A suitor flexes his pecs; a handful of maidens swoon at his exploits.

Violent Content

There's a reason why Romans built a wall between England and Scotland. We see the king, his lords and their contingencies squabble over pride and other minor matters—hitting, kicking, biting, nipple-pinching and eye-gouging in a raucous slapstick scene. Elinor eventually grabs Fergus and the lords by their ears and drags them out of the melee to make the fighting stop.

We don't see Fergus lose his leg, but we do see some of the confrontations with bears—battles that involve swords and arrows and claws and teeth. Two bears get into a fight in which one is killed (crushed by a rock). Merida's injured by the swipe of a bear claw.

A servant runs into a pole. Merida falls from her horse.

Crude or Profane Language

None.

Drug and Alcohol Content

Fergus drinks from a flagon. Merida suggests that her dad and the lords celebrate something by going down to the cellar and cracking open Fergus' private stores.

Other Negative Elements

The triplets engage in a number of stunts and pranks, exasperating the adults but rarely earning an admonishment. They also run around naked. (They're shown from behind.) Fergus, along with several lords and soldiers, are seen (also from behind) without pants. A lord moons his compatriots.

Elinor gets queasy after eating a tart-like confection, burping and gagging. A dish of haggis also induces gags.

Conclusion

Brave is a quite good tale deftly told, filled with moments of insight, beauty and humor. And of course the animation is amazing. But in terms of content, it cowers ever so slightly. Bear rears and bare rears wriggle across the screen. Lords moon one another. Magic coats the Scottish highlands like so much dark frosting.

Brave also can be scary. This place is populated by fearsome beasts, hidden dangers and unexpected threats. And the subject matter can play on a child's deepest fears. For sensitive, younger kids, Brave may well spark a nightmare or two.

Which brings me back to something I wrote earlier: We've come to expect a lot from Pixar. Ever since the release of Toy Story in 1995, the studio has dazzled us with some of the finest, most family-friendly movies ever. In this humble reviewer's opinion, not even Disney in its golden age (1939-47) or renaissance (1989-2000) can match Pixar's present run.

So it's only by those loftiest of standards that I can call Brave a disappointment. For its familial lessons learned by both mother and daughter are more than merely magical: They're practical. They're discerning. And they're inspiring.


Taken from: http://www.pluggedin.com/movies/intheaters/brave.aspx

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Free Summer Activities for the Family



Since today is the first official day of summer I thought I would post some ideas of things you can do with your family that are free. Summer can get busy but kids can also get bored fairly quickly, so when you run into those times check out the options below. If you have any more ideas, please comment and share!


1) Bowl for Free-summer program where kids can bowl free

http://www.kidsbowlfree.com/

2) Library Programs-check out the website of your local library; most have special summer programs going on that are free.

3) Markets: Roots/Central Market-Roots is on Tuesdays and Central Market is on Saturdays.

4) That Fish Place-large pet store on Centerville Road with lots of animals/reptiles/fish for kids to see.

5) Long's Park Summer Music Series-FREE-music concerts every Sunday night beginning at 7:30 p.m. Now through the end of August.

http://www.longspark.org/music.html

6) Independence Day Parades-lots to choose from!

7) Vacation Bible School-FREE-numerous held at local churches.

Mountville Mennonite: July 8-12 6:30-8:30 p.m. ages 3 and up
Hempfield United Methodist Church: July 22-26 6:30-8:30 p.m. grades 1-6
Zion Church of Millersville: July 2-6 6:00-8:00 p.m. ages 4-12
Millersville Bible Church: July 9-13 6:15-8:45 p.m. kids entering K-6th grade
8) Family Film Series at Buchanan Park-FREE-starts at dusk on Wednesday evenings.

2012 Movie Schedule:
June 27 101 Dalmations II
July 5 Aristocats
July 11 Alpha & Omega
July 18 Hoodwinked
July 25 Gnomeo & Juliet
Aug 1 Gullivers Travels - 2010

Friday, June 8, 2012

Take a peek inside the kidSPACE nursery!

I don't know if you've ever thought about this before, but most likely your child's first experience with church, when they are ready to be apart from you, is in the nursery. It is there that they are first exposed to other caring adults in their church family and begin to form an idea of what church is all about. It's an important step in your child's exposure to the church family. And let's not forget how nice it is as a parent to be able to focus on worship! The nursery is such a vital and vibrant part of our Millersville church, which is why I want to share some of it with you today.

Our nursery is headed up by Shana Stauffer, who does an amazing job with the scheduling as well as all of the small duties that accompany taking care of the nursery.







Typically on a Sunday morning there are anywhere from 7-13 kids crawling and toddling around in the nursery. And the numbers are not going to dwindle any time soon! The kids usually play for awhile and then enjoy a snack at the picnic tables located in the room. Some take naps in the room adjoining the nursery, which is the "quiet" room. And even for the ones who have some separation anxiety (like my own son) it is a warm and loving place to be. Just look at the faces in these pictures! I must say, we seem to have a real talent for producing adorable children.




















We also have amazing volunteers who strive to make the nursery a nurturing, fun, and safe place for our kids. They are entrusted with some of the most important and vulnerable members of our family, and for that we are truly grateful. So from the bottom of our hearts, thank you to all who serve in our nursery. May these smiling faces grow up to bless you!