Back to School!!

School supplies are everywhere, which means it's that time of year again! Talk of school is everywhere, so I thought I would join in on the banter. This year I am beginning the journey into having a school-age child and have been doing a lot of reflecting. I can't say I haven't shed a few tears (I'll blame it on the fact that I just had a baby) but all in all I'm excited about starting the journey. If your family is getting ready to make the transition back to school, here are a few tips on how to start off the year on the right foot.

1) Pray for your child-This may sound like common sense, but I challenge you to pray specifically! For your child's friends, experiences, academics, etc.

2) Pray for your child's teacher-Having been a teacher before taking on my current role, I may be a bit biased, but teachers have a lot of responsibility and unique pressures. They could use your prayers!

3) Establish routines-At least a week before school starts, begin your schooltime routines. Talk with your child about when they will complete homework and get them used to going to bed a little earlier and getting up earlier. It will make the transition that much easier. And you might want to do the same for youself, too!

4) Deal with Anxiety- Some kids have an incredible knack for adapting to situations. Others do not and need some extra love and support. If your child is having anxiety about starting school, have some friends over the week before school starts. Being with friends who will be at their school might take away some of the tension. Also, be available for your kids during the time leading up to school. Even if anxiety is not expressed, your extra presence will be a comfort.

5) Stay Positive-Children very quickly pick up on our feelings and tend to copy and many times magnify them. Talk about the beginning of the year in positive terms. Instead of saying "you have to go back to school" say "you get to go back to school soon!"

6) Start fun traditions-The night before school starts, sit down together and share hopes and fears about the upcoming year. And then pray over them! On the evening of the first day of school go out for ice cream and share about your day. Make it fun and a time to connect.

As the school year starts I'll be praying for all of our kidSPACE kids and families as you adjust to another school year. May your year be full of blessings!